yep I suppose you are right. I'm treading a careful line at the moment between being assertive and NOT being accused of being awkward.
difficult, since her family's meddling has resulted in similar accusations before.
Finally got legal advice today, which has given me some comfort. Hopefully will get a result on access soon which at least will make my current sitch more bearable.
In other news GAL is going well - good weather helps immensely, but can also catch you unawares - how do other members cope with thoughts about how things would or should be with W when it's triggered by a random thing?
Thanks for the encouragement as well folks, you have no idea how heartening it is to hear the words of wisdom and support shared on here.
M 10, T 18 M: 36, W: 35, D: 8, S: 6 EA: Oct 12 ILYBINILWY: Jan 15 BD: Aug 15 Separated: Sep 15 Miss you: Jun 16 Aug 16: Dating (!) Oct 16: Selfishness returns... currently: disgusted