Thanks for the encouragement Ralph88. I've noticed since I quit bringing up the R, acting as if, doing 180, doing some GALing and just being cordial, my W has been less angry and a little more communicative w/out prompting. She is out less, has her wedding ring back on but still is in spare BR. I haven't pushed anything. I don't know if I'm making headway or not but this "Limbo Life" is what is wearing on me. It just feels so awkward. Her coldness is still there but isn't as strong. I want so bad to discuss everything and determine where she is in her head. Am I best to still let her bring it up or could she possibly be waiting on me to say something? How do you know when it is time to proactively reach back out?
