Doodler/Digit, Question for ya'll. I'm in the same situation with my wife. We get along fine. But she's still moving out in 13 days. Once she moves out (or doodler, in your situation, now that she has moved out). Are you going dark and wait for her to contact you or are you going to try to make first contact?
I absolutely will be going dark. Even though we are still living together, I kind of already have. We normally text throughout the day, just a lot in general. I stopped all of that, and even though the frequency has obviously gone down, she still reaches out from time to time, however mundane the topic is. I always answer, but not quickly.
I also have noticed that she hasn't even whispered anything about divorce since I stopped bringing it up. Patience is going to be key here, me thinks.
