She emailed me in the middle of the night saying I am ignoring everything she says but she wants to see if I want to talk at some point to see where I am.
She's mad because she sees that you are starting to detach and she is taking that as ignoring her. She wants to see where YOU are at? She's temp checking. When she sees/talks to you, she needs to see that you are detached and moving on with your life without her. Let her see what she is missing out on. She's got to realize a pretty significant loss in her life if she is to begin coming out of the fog.
Me: 48 y/o W: 47 y/o Together: > 20 yrs BD: Dec '15, then S 2nd BD: Mar '16, then I filed for D April '16: started piecing
