Nope, thats controlling dood, she needs to decide her own life. Me asking her out would be seen right through for what it is. I cannot be melty.

I have replied to two emails to the wife whole day. Sent a TM asking for funds into my acc - mmmhhh, she controls the money...

Anyhows, i cannot force her issue, only my own.

Just cos things are going right, doesn't mean that they were always wrong.