So, it may seem feeble, and I know what dream and darknes are going to say, but my question is... is this a boundary - "If my WW goes out on thursday and saturday with OM2, then I will file for D."
It will not be an ultimatum given to her, it is put in place to protect myself from any actions that may harm me, STDs, further emotional harm. I fully comprehend that a D will not make me better. But I cannot condone and accept this type of behaviour. That being said, she still has the ability to make the right choice, in my eyes.
I'm not going to do it, just asking if it is a valid boundary.
Just cos things are going right, doesn't mean that they were always wrong.
