Last night was quiet. No OW talk...stuck to general conversation. H did make a comment that he might make himself a drink and I told him the drinking was getting to be too much. I told him he turns mean.
H then said if I didn't provoke him it wouldn't happen. I said his actions provoked me. H had no response. This was not an argument. H didn't have a drink.
Another bit of info I heard him say last night was about increasing our tax with holdings because when S20 graduates from college we are going to owe. H said "we will owe until D14 goes to college"...to me that is future talk. I just acknowledged that I agreed and we would figure out how much I need to take out of my paycheck.
Oh..H didn't get home from work until 6 and walked into the kitchen and said "oh you didn't have to wait for me to eat dinner" H seemed pleasantly surprised...again just another thing I noticed. I didn't say anything we all sat down and ate as a family.
After that D10 wanted H to make meatballs because she only likes his so he made those for dinner tonight and then went to the gym. He gave me a kiss goodnight but no I love you's since Sundays fight.
