I wouldnt read to much into the hair, i think thats mostly a movie thing. My W got her hair dyed just cause her hair dresser went "oooo wouldnt you like your hair dyed <insert color>.."
Me31 W31 M11yrs S6yrs 23Mar16-BD 9Apr16-W admitted EA w boss. 27Jun16-W Changed job and promised NC w OM. 14Jul16-Continued contact w OM.Start of Separation. 24May17-Divorced.