i dont know if im heavy handed but if something is morally and apprehensively wrong im not going to ignore it, ill make a stand.
Now how to make that stand is a different beast all together, balancing the fine act between firm or controlling, tactfully or confrontational.
Me31 W31 M11yrs S6yrs 23Mar16-BD 9Apr16-W admitted EA w boss. 27Jun16-W Changed job and promised NC w OM. 14Jul16-Continued contact w OM.Start of Separation. 24May17-Divorced.