14 days of sheer hell, still in fog 5

[DDJ]

So there is a possible OM2, who is pursuing. It is BFFs brother.

Yesterday he sends a whatsapp pick of a half-peeled banana. She replies with what must she do with it. He replies "suck it". This is literally next to me. But i acted AS-IF it meant nothing.

I called one of her friends and she said that my WW was being naive, but the OM2 is very very interested. My WW justifies her actions (still) by saying that she's always been a flirtatious person. I can see that she still loves the attention. Darknes, would say, focus on me. I am going to do that.

BUT now i need to take action. I am definitely not going to confront her. But i need to tell her that what she's doing is wholly inappropriate. Fight for her without actually fighting.

This is what i'm thinking, and i'm rather going to tell her to her face this evening, as i think it's the best medium to gauge what she is saying, besides, an email which can be construed in so many wicked ways.

Based on the communication which i saw yesterday, with you and OM2, I find it inappropriate for another man to send my W a pic of a banana and to ask her to suck it. I cannot tell you what to do, but i can tell you what I think is wrong.

WHAT DO YOU THINK? see previous thread with my contact about willingness, that was needed to set this one up.