Originally Posted By: Ralph88
She is manipulating you. .....
Regarding a sep, are you saying you would be able to trust a mutual agreement with this alien?


yes agree she's manipulating to some extent but she's also being more than fair by sharing costs such as the house cleaning, lawn care etc. that she probably doesn't need too. TBH I don't know that she know's what she's doing half the time or wants.

Like I said earlier we have each signed a separation agreement, it just hasn't been blessed by a L or a Judge.

I also look at the worse case scenario - she decides she stops paying for stuff? I stop helping her pay for her rent.

Ralph88 - do you think it would have been any easier had you had her agree to everything up front? you don't think if you got the L's involved earlier, it would have turned equally nasty?


Me: 40 W: 45
T: 13, M: 11
1 D: 9

Suspect A 6/15
ILBINILWY 8/15, and 3/16
EA/PA Discovered 3/16
EA admitted 3/16
W Moved out 4/16
W opens R talk and says A over 1/17