Start looking into remedies for the anxiety. It is natural to be going through it, but it helps to get it calmed. I talked with my MD and he prescribed me some stuff. There are "natural" remedies, meditation, exercise, eat healthy, sleep, see an IC, etc. you will want to find what works for you. My experience was that I put it off because there was a perceived stigma and I thought I could just get through it. I needed help. And for me it was a combination of things and I am just now getting a handle on it. I would encourage that you identify how disruptive it is and how much help you may need to get through this. Then you can and will think straight.
You indicated she had an ea in the past and maybe a short lived one recently. I am not a vet on this, but my reading others info, would lead me to think you should handle this as a WW. It is an addiction as sandi would put it.
She already wants a d. Speeding it up is not the worst thing. But only you can make this decision. I would check out sandi's info. She talks about stepping up and being a man so to speak. That is why several have mentioned not moving out.
I send you my support, but my advice is just my interpretation of what I have read from others.
Me 46 Former W 46 D19 D7 BD Feb 2016 WAW moves out 4/16/16 D final 6/1/2017
It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine
