Originally Posted By: Natus
Hi Paclove, i exposed my W EA with her boss to her office by screenshot her bosses messages to my W and sending it to her office group chat.

It worked well for me but i live in an asiasn culture where infidelity is a major shame and the OM is married as well. I also live in a small country where everyone knows everyone so it makes it harder for OM to make any moves now.

I did not expose it to family and friends. For me nothing to gain from that to be honest except more hurt and shame.





Your wife's company also apparently has a lax security policy. Giving my husband access to office group chats would get me fired.


Me: 44
H: 44
Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10
Together/Married: 22 years
H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16
H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16