Hi Paclove, i exposed my W EA with her boss to her office by screenshot her bosses messages to my W and sending it to her office group chat.
It worked well for me but i live in an asiasn culture where infidelity is a major shame and the OM is married as well. I also live in a small country where everyone knows everyone so it makes it harder for OM to make any moves now.
I did not expose it to family and friends. For me nothing to gain from that to be honest except more hurt and shame.
Me31 W31 M11yrs S6yrs 23Mar16-BD 9Apr16-W admitted EA w boss. 27Jun16-W Changed job and promised NC w OM. 14Jul16-Continued contact w OM.Start of Separation. 24May17-Divorced.