14 days of sheer hell - part 4

[Natus]

I agree with Painter. It kinda feels like you are reacting to the trivial stuff and then glossing over what should be deal breakers. Its like you are putting alot of effort to being mysterious rather than being a stable, solid H and F.

Drinking in front of S until she is unable to put him to bed. That is a deal breaker, i would have questioned her priorities as a mother. Yea it may mean we fight about it if i failed to approach the subject tactfully but i would make a stance there.

On the going out drinking with the crew, i wouldnt tolerate it. For me that is a clear boundary and a roadblock to mending the M, but thats just me and where i am from its very bad for W to be hanging out at night with other men. (that goes vice versa for H's too here).

The going out and disappearing to appear mysterious seem a little childish to me. Dont get me wrong if you have activities by all means go ahead and do it, if she asks id tell her. I would rather come off being happy with my activities rather than being cold and sullen about it.