14 days of sheer hell - part 4

[Painter]

I was thinking that too, that the sexes on this forum must find it hard to understand how each one reacts to the other. A strong man does not question himself, he's confident and is always listening to make sure that he makes the right decisions, for the household.
This must be hard for strong women like the ones on this forum. Us men need to learn to lead of R and not the W. You women need to learn to let your H lead, which goes against the whole feeling, but i guess that's what 180 is about.

You're still speaking a foreign language to me... I think it makes sense to take turns and utilize our individual strengths as a couple to each do what we do best. Nobody can take the lead all the time, that's exhausting. It's not a hierarchy, but a partnership, it's in the name.

... and then, she's had one bottle of white wine tonight, not even the whole bottle and was supposed to put our S to sleep. And our S has just left our MBR and went to lay in his own room, as she's tipsy and passed out snoring. The fog is deep! But baby steps hey. I'm off to lay by him.

This is clearly something she needs help with. It would be a dealbreaker for me. She is not fit to take care of a child.