I shouldn't of been so nice and cordial today, I totally didn't think about her last text to me, saying be nice or get out.. Oh well, hopefully it doesn't go to her head.
She wouldn't have liked it if you had said, "Be faithful, or get out"!
I garantee you she thinks that is why you were much warmer.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!