Thanks Cubebot..
Hope you are right but he doesn't seem confused on way leaning. Doing best not to think about his feelings for coworker but tough. could feelings fade soon? Hope he can realize that our marriage is the better choice and not to give up.

Once last wk I let him know was playing tennis after work. When I got home he asked how it was and asked if was singles or doubles. So seemed to take interest but did best not to analyze. Same with saying goodnight. I can tell from face he rather not but He initiates a hug. The effort varies.

When you say "early stage" is that bc we are living together and he has delayed saying anything to me?