Thanks for your reply - I don't think he thinks there is anything wrong with him though. It's all my fault for leaving.
Not necessarily. How do you know he has not used this time to reflect? This is mind reading.
He was completely unapproachable at the end of our marriage. I don't think I've got it in me to say I was sorry to someone who clearly is not.
. You left Him!!!! How did you expect him to act??? If he begged you to stay, would you have said something along the lines of " he doesn't respect my wishes. Always trying to do what he wants". ? You admitted you were being grumpy due to menopause. No? His feelings must have been beyond hurt. He told you when the dust settles he would like to be friends. Again what were you expecting?
He treated me like I was something he had stepped on.
I don't understand this. He gave you what you wanted. it seems like the divorce proceedings went smoothly and fairly. He did not cheat or take on a rebound relationship. You walked out. You abandoned your vows and you are unhappy with how he reacted?
Even writing this makes me wonder why I would want to salvage a relationship like that.
He needs to take ownership for his part in the marriage breakdown before we can even contemplate it.
