Thanks guys, I had the thought logically, but a reaction was in the back of my mind.... But I think your right DDJ, I think I need to draw it out to stay with my S as long as possible, that's more important to me than getting away from her.
But, I just found out that the calls that I thought were to the OM was actually her BFFs phone number... Doesn't prove that she's not talking to OM, but it definitely makes me feel better.
I also think she is trying to figure out what actions she can take to regain my trust, I.e. The text last night after class. Problem is I need her to own up to the affair and show remorse for that first, she is still blaming me.
M - 9 1/2 years 5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA 10/31/16 - We sold house 01/10/18 - D Finalized