So an ongoing theme in W wanting separation is her idea that she can't work on her issues while in the same house as me. She realizes that she has work to do, but she's putting the roadblock of separation in the way of her starting to do it now. I say roadblock, because at this point financially it would be impossible to separate and expect to have the life style we have. I think all of the repeated separation talk is her looking for a way to get me to leave her. I honesty feel she's too spoiled and lazy right now to think about making a sacrifice to leave.
She complained about my lack of communication when leaving the house. She said it is just common courtesy telling someone when you leave. You would even tell a friend if you were leaving to go do an errand. I agree with this, but I'm trying to work on GAL and detachment. What do you guys think?
