I committed a big NO NO last night. After seeing him in therapy(just basic intake) he kept rolling his eyes and mouthing whatever like a true 15yr old I called his mother. Have not spoken to her in almost a year. I flat out said I have done all I can do for this man..to the point of dragging him to the VA he is yours now.I spelled it out flat out to her...he has ptsd...he is in denial..can wear a happy mask with all.. but drops it around me and my sister. He has been lying to me about everything... my mil was shocked to hear his stories. I can't even begin to explain the lunacy in the words that he has uttered to me...ughh
He is being agresive with the dog now and it breaks my heart but i can't do anything else. I have parenting guidelines we will hash out..then i am out