I absolutely agree with annab74. That is not the behavior of someone who really wants to commit and make up for what they have done to you. She should have no thought of what other people think if she is truly where she says she is about your relationship. Be careful NYGal. Protect your heart and do what's right for you first. You are the one steering the ship now, not her.
H: 44, Me: 45 Married: 20 y Together: 25 y no kids Walk away: 12/15 Asked for temp separation 12/25/15 PA confirmed 3/16 (apparently neither the first, nor the last PA he has had) H filed for D 5/16
