Update: We talked about me moving back home on June 15th. But she's wavering. She says all the right things: she loves me, she realizes she has been selfish and greedy and that the world doesn't revolve around her. But then she tells me maybe I should wait until July 1, after her sister has come for a visit at the end of June. So we're really talking only two weeks difference.
It seems she is so ashamed of trashing me to friends that now she's having trouble justifying why she would want to get back together with me. What other people thinks is very important to her, despite what she says to the contrary.
What do I do? I've already told my housemate I'm moving out by June 15th and she's looking for someone to move in. I could probably figure out a temporary solution so that W can have her long weekend alone with her sister... but it just feels weird that I have to be hidden.
She says she's completely done with ow, doesn't even want to talk to her, and that she's feeling happier and much better about that more quickly than she thought.
It's so hard for me to be patient at this point. This weekend she's already informed me that she's busy Friday and Saturday, so we'll get together on Sunday. And I'm going to tell her that I have plans for Sunday evening, plans with my divorce group friends. But what I really want is to spend evenings with her watching our old shows and just relaxing and drinking tea and talking and laughing. I have to be patient. She says she wants that too.
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
