Originally Posted By: poschan
having a tough couple of days. not sure if I should see a doc re: anxiety. Has anyone had experience with meds for the anxiety? trying to let go and move on but its so tough...my mind just keeps racing and racing. When I see W she seems fine all business like and matter of fact. Have not separated finances yet. Still living in same house separate BRs
If anyone can provide some advice on how to tell D7 that would be great


Poschan,
Definitely go see an MD for some meds. I held off for several months as my mood worsened due to the constant barrage of attacks from my WW and her L. My MD started me off on Wellbutrin but it had 0 effect on me, so he put me on Lexapro which helps me a lot. It stops your mind from racing thoughts especially in the middle of the night... I was having trouble sleeping and staying asleep, I kept thinking "what if" and going over everything to see what I did wrong in the middle of the night. This med helped me a lot.


Me-LBH, 48
Spouse-WW, 48
Married for 19 years
Son, 12
BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding)
BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA)
WW filed D February 2016
WW moved out April 2016