Yes to the conflict avoidant part. I will work on that.
I see it written often here about not leaving the MB or the house and it comes across as a legal chess move. I did consult an attorney and he said it was completely irrelevant. He assured me it has absolutely no bearing on divorce proceedings or settlement.
Can I move back in? Of course, it's my house. It feels like that would hurt the situation as far as the relationship goes. It would make my life better, but I predict it would fast track the D.
