That is really helpful. Hard but helpful.

Eventually she is coming over our house to get more stuff or to stay there. Do I take all our pictures down before then?

There are also a bunch of [censored] that she purchased in the last few months. Do I return them all (I want to). I think she plans on returning 50% of it, but I dont want it all sitting on my credit card. I don't want to be vindictive but its taking up a room with boxes and such.