Working on detachment, my anxiety, and the joys of limbo

[Painter]

2 am here, too. And still wake up at 7. I should get off the computer earlier, the light supposedly messes with our brains.

I understand what you meant now about being private about your sadness. Sounds like we are similar in being open about our feelings in the relationship. I could never keep a secret from H, either. And he said the same thing, that I never let things go, where he wanted to ignore problems and sweep them under the rug. And his resentment built because of that...