What is so hard is that she suddenly shut me out of her life. It didn't happen gradually, it happened one day and that was that. How can a person even do that??
YOU and almost everyone else that posts on this website. So read as much as you can here, you are just posting part of the script.
Originally Posted By: tjcran
Another question I have - I'm not liking our living arrangement. I moved out. I did because she asked for space so she could figure things out. Not even a week later she says she has it all figured out and wants a D. Now she gets the run of the house, all its luxuries and conveniences, and her life is minimally disrupted. But here I am stuck in a tiny basement apartment, miles from my family, my work and my life. Do I push her on this issue?
This is a reason that we do not recommend moving out at first and is one of the major mistakes that people make in a divorce situation. Possession is 9/10. Have you consulted a lawyer? Can you move back in? I can also say moving out was conflict avoidant. A behavior that you have, that should be worked on.
