Ok.
So this morning I wake up and I'm have those negative thoughts again. The thoughts of do I really want to be married to W. I wonder am I just afraid to be alone and to pull the trigger on divorce myself. I begin to have all these thoughts that what she said is right. That she cant make me happy the way I want. She is right. I do want more children. She doesn't. I do want someone who enjoys physical touch and will hug me and kiss me when they see me. Someone to cuddle with. Someone who wants me in bed. I think to myself. I'm a good looking gut, with a great career and I'm a great father. I can do better. So why am I staying around?
I don't think I should stay in my marriage because of my son, but I do feel like I owe him the effort and to give it a go.
I just get confused at times as to wondering if I really want this


M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it