Job, I have always felt BIL had his own agenda and I do believe he gets his ego fed by running the ops here. I've been trying to delicately point out to H for a long while that BIL does not have H's or my best interest at heart. I will be having a conversation with BIL.

On to the biggie ...

This morning I went into H's office here and the odor was unmistakable - I remember it well from my high school/college days. He left a baggie in his office drawer.

To say I was shocked would be an understatement. Although I wondered if he was dabbling (given the "friends" he has over there and what he's told me about his high school days), I had no proof. Now I have it.

I don't know what to do. Do I let him know I found it? Do I keep my mouth shut? What do I do?


Me: 59 and holding
H: :53
Me: 1 S, 1 D, both grown
M: 19
T: 23
BD: 9-23-2013