Job, I have always felt BIL had his own agenda and I do believe he gets his ego fed by running the ops here. I've been trying to delicately point out to H for a long while that BIL does not have H's or my best interest at heart. I will be having a conversation with BIL.
On to the biggie ...
This morning I went into H's office here and the odor was unmistakable - I remember it well from my high school/college days. He left a baggie in his office drawer.
To say I was shocked would be an understatement. Although I wondered if he was dabbling (given the "friends" he has over there and what he's told me about his high school days), I had no proof. Now I have it.
I don't know what to do. Do I let him know I found it? Do I keep my mouth shut? What do I do?
Me: 59 and holding H: :53 Me: 1 S, 1 D, both grown M: 19 T: 23 BD: 9-23-2013