How will she know/notice etc? She's out gallivanting. She's moved out (at least for the week).
Should I be posting all my happiness on Facebook? Or just stay completely dark
She's staying in a motel with OM. Why do you think she cares about what you're doing now? She isn't going to care until she's ready to. You can't force her to want to rebuild. All you can do is prepare yourself as the best version of 198127 that you can be so that in the case that you get a second chance, you'll be ready.
So post as you would. Live your life as you want to. What improvements can/should/will you make?
