What should I be doing? (2)

[Coconut]

Wow, that's a lot of posts... Should I be going trough all of sitch, or just reading his comments.

Ok, I am gonna get yelled at for trying to read into what's going on and snooping, but here I go (for full disclosure)
Last night WW text me after class at 11 when it's over and let me know she was going to stop and get food, I replied that was nice of you to tell me, Thk you.

She got home, said hi and I replied. Then she said she felt like she was going to pass out in class because she hasn't been eating. I said you gotta be sure to eat well.

This morning I woke up and she was getting ready in MBR (she's still sleeping in guest room), and I said morning, but she didn't respond, so I just laid there for 2 minutes until she left the room. Then I checked phone records, OM called her twice yesterday, one call for one minut and the other call for 9 minutes... (Here's me trying to read into it). All the previous calls where about 30 minutes, then there was a twenty minute call, and then the two I just mentioned. The last 4 or 5 calls have been inbound calls, she hasn't made an outbound call in 3 days. It looks to me like he's pursuing and she's cutting him short, and I wonder if it's possible for OM to push WW away? I know I'm gonna get hit, but this is what I'm thinking, so I'll admit it..

With that said I feel like I'm making strides in detaching, I've only cried when thinking about S16, and even that has been minimal... My biggest cry in two days was when I went to the doctor and they asked if I was single, married or divorced.. That really hit me, that I might one day have to answer divorced, and then I wondered why divorced had to be an option, couldn't it just be single or married, why attach the "divorced" stigma?

Ok, I gotta go get blood work done for a check up, be back later.