Too little too late?

[CRW]

Did you read the book? Its quite a bit different than the advice here too.

Not that the advice here is bad, but total detachmnent and going dark and all that is not always the best path.

My coach directly told me, sometimes begging and pleading actually works! Those people aren't here though.

The themes I think are common are, stop chasing, stop controlling, and make yourself better.