It definitely is. Its about who can out do the other, from her perspective. It's always been a power battle in our R though. I always used to win, and now she believes that she's strong enough to become the alpha.

Any ideas - I did tell her that if she stays home, i'll stay home. If I go out, then she can come with. If she goes out then I go with too. It's her decision really so let's see what she comes back with. This is just a test of her willingness. Tomorrow's always another day.

Just cos things are going right, doesn't mean that they were always wrong.