5 weeks in since she said she doesnt love me.(2)

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Just to clarify my last point above - im not talking about demanding sex whenever. But i dont think i can go for months without murdering someone.

You and I clearly live on different planets, so this suggestion might not work for you, but why can't you handle your sexual needs during limbo the same way you will handle them if you get divorced?

Hi Rose888, sorry i should clarify what i meant by limbo land, we are not separated. She hasnt even approach the subject of separating in fact im the one who ends up asking. We do everything as husband and wife still except intimacy. Its eerie, she doesnt act like the other WAW or WW i've read on this site. Shes still "plays" the role as wife. Its like nothing has changed in the marriage at all except the coldness in the bed.

As to why i wouldnt handle it like i was divorced, if i was divorced i'd likely be dating.