Quick question - for those of you that did Separate, how many of you went the legal route vs. informal route? I spoke to a L but she advised if we both had a mutual understanding then no real reason to go legal, D is with me - so that takes care of custody and financially we both contribute equally.

Me: 40 W: 45
T: 13, M: 11
1 D: 9

Suspect A 6/15
ILBINILWY 8/15, and 3/16
EA/PA Discovered 3/16
EA admitted 3/16
W Moved out 4/16
W opens R talk and says A over 1/17