Originally Posted By: Trg8
I am now focusing on fixing the things I hate about myself and I am working on being the best me I can be.


what are these things and how are you going to 180?

What is the best you you can be?

Also, I think you get it, but DON't Pursue her. Don't start R talks, and when/if she does don't seek answers for yourself. Validate her, and listen for clues on what she is unhappy about. I think the fact she said, she thinks it's fake means you are doing some things that are right, and that confuses her. BE CONSISTENT with what works and make adjustments with what doesn't.

This isn't going to be a quick fix, so patience is key here.

I like to remind myself the WW is going to do what she is going to do. You can't control that!

Don't do things such as your question about," should i put my ring back on? That is seeking a reaction from you W. Really ask yourself if you are doing something to see how she will react. If yes, it is probably not the right thing to do, she will see it as controlling.

Keep posting and be a confident, awesome dude, that only a fool would leave.