Originally Posted By: ahmeds
I just need to know if I should stop fighting to save my marriage.
Is it already long gone? What can I do to help myself?

If you are asking if you should DETACH and LET GO?

YES!

Most marriages here are over at bomb drop,
just the LBS refuses to accept that.

To help yourself, start with reading my first post and following the advice it contains.

Then keep learning as much as you can.
Remember that DB'ing is counter intuitive,
So doing the opposite is a BIG theme.

Did you ever try to squeeze a bar of soap when it was wet.
The harder you squeeze the harder it is to hold.

Me-70, D37,S36