Rose I struggle with those thoughts sometimes, but everyone is partially responsible, even your H. You can't focus on what you perceive as your failures. If it was something you can work on and it benefits you for you, then work on it. Otherwise let the H tell you in MC that he needs something from you. Something I feel that I failed, may not even be a concern for my W, so there is no reason to worry about it.
Ralph88 Me 40s W 30s, D5 D3 , M7 T9 2013 B drop 1, EA found 2016 B drop 2, EA/PA? 2/16 Physical Seperation 2/16 I filed for D 4/16 PA Confirmed
