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[Nate14]

If your dropping the I know bomb make sure you have solid proof. They will lie through their teeth even if you catch them in the act. Be prepared to hear lies. That's been my experience. Hell my wife still won't admit it's an affair after I have all the proof in the world. She's just gonna divorce me and tear our family apart and never admit anything.

Sorry to hear your in a crappy position as well. Don't believe your the only problem and that's why there was an affair. The affair is all on her. It's a choice, just like hooding to work the problems out first before moving on.