Question for anyone that reads this. What is the best policy for telling your kids? My D3 and S6. We sat them down about a month back before I really knew the full extent of what I was facing and told them that we were splitting. She snapped at me. Your not gonna blame me are you? I said no but they will ask one day and I'm not gonna lie.
Since hat day my S6 asked who's idea it was. I said that we were not agreeing and so decided to both seperate.
My question is, should I be telling him that his mom doesn't want his dad around anymore, should I say anything about the OM? Or are they too young to involve. I feel that would be trying to play the kids against her but I also don't want to lie about it? Thoughts?
Me 40 W 35 Kids 2 S6 D3 T 10 yrs M 8yrs BD 11Mar16
