I absolutely agree with you, Blu. We should aim for Oscar-quality acting with our spouses.

We just shouldn't beat ourselves up if that act doesn't actually reflect what we feel inside. That is a work in progress.

H: 44, Me: 45
Married: 20 y Together: 25 y
no kids
Walk away: 12/15
Asked for temp separation 12/25/15
PA confirmed 3/16 (apparently neither the first, nor the last PA he has had)
H filed for D 5/16