DDJ, I found this thread, it's a LBW who pieced her R to soon. She has great insight as to the pitfalls and is now fighting to not be a WAW herself...

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2670289&page=1


M - 9 1/2 years
5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA
10/31/16 - We sold house
01/10/18 - D Finalized