Will things ever get better

[Coconut]

Reb, I am so sorry to hear what your going through, it's good to hear that you've stayed strong, she needs your stability in the family.. Do your best to look at him as someone other than who you where married to for 30 years, that's not him... Hold on to the good memories, it was a big part of your life, but don't associate them with him, he's not that person right now... I'm slowly being able to cry about the memories of my W, but when I Stand in front of my WW, I try and only let my memories go back a month, filled with anger towards me, it helps me be the level headed, grounded one... Today at least, we will see if I can do it again tomorrow, one day at a time..