GAL going well. Need help with LRT and 180

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Melo:

Good to hear from you. I was getting a little worried - I thought you took the going dark mantra too literally.

Don't congratulate me just yet. The tough talk also came with some pursuing. Also, she probably felt a little threatened and that is not good either - considering she says emotional safety to one of her big issues. So it could backfire if she felt threatened. Tonight, I'm not going to say a thing - as I'm sure that is what her plans are too. Let the dust settle.

I have to remember that this new found confidence is not because of anything I did. I ask God to change me, protect her and bring us back together. I'm trusting in Him.

But, for now the limbo is back on. She did make sure did wash up her dishes etc in the morning. I told her that if I'm your husband, I'll do your dishes so you can get out the door on time - but right now, I'm not here to clean up after you, despite the fact the dishes are for food etc, my children eat.