Sandi, you give such great advice to LB husbands. Is there anyone whose threads you might recommend who can provide some similar perspective for a LB wife? A former WAH/WH, perhaps? I could really use some input. Thanks in advance.
Well thank you, Phoebe. There could have been someone at sometime, and I missed the threads. I have stayed mostly in the newcomers section for several years. It sounds really crazy, but I only remember a couple of men who came on board as a WAH or WH. However, they would not say what the LBW'S should do and not do. I don't recall them having over one thread, and I pleaded with one of them to stay (as he had reconciled with his W), but in the end......I felt he was here b/c it was part of her stipulations or he was trying to pay penitence, IDK. He sounded so very sad.
I know they are out there somewhere, b/c all these cheating W's are with most of them.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
