Hang in there Poschan. I just read an article today about Ben Affleck and Jennifer Garner reconciling. The author was against exes getting back together. She then went on to write that she was divorced and eventually got back together with her spouse,but only after growing, healing and changing. She said that she had to make sure the M was completely over first and only then was she able to re-commit to her XH, but it was as if it were a brand new R, because they had both changed. She went on to say that this MR was way better than her 1st. You first have to till the dirt so you can plant flowers.
