Ok. So does this seem like the texts from someone who is "miserable" and is "scared to stay"

W: "Mongolian beef or salmon?"
Me: "Let's go with Salmon"
W: "Ugh. Ok"
Me: "I'm sorry. Was that the wrong answer? Lol"
W: "Haha no"
W: "Does Publix have salmon?"
Me: "I think they usually do
But maybe Mother's Day might have cleaned them out"
W: "Ok. Hmmm some chicken dish or beef"
Me: "I'm good with whatever
I trust your judgment after you wowed me with the smothered chicken😉"
W: "Im making salmon"
W: "You need to get a Pinterest so you can look at some of my recipes"
W: "They have quinoa crusted chicken"
M: "Looking forward to trying the salmon
I'll check that out"


Ok so I posted that whole exchange again because I'm wanting to make sure that I'm keeping text as much as I should. I also complimented her in her cooking which is 180. She really has been doing more around the house since I started doing more as well. It's just different for me this time around because we are sill in same house. I also believe at this point that I am dealing with a WAW and not a WW like last time
Because of these differences I'm talking with a DB coach tonight.
Last time it was easier for me to detach and not respond, etc when we lived apart


M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it