My first post - please be nice.

[collin]

My H talked about moving out. If he had, I can't see myself agreeing to assemble furniture for him. (That's our equivalent thing. I do all the assembling.)

I've already helped her pick up her couch she bought from the store and take it to her storage unit. I don't want her to hurt herself though. I'd feel like a a-hole if she hurt herself doing something that I could've been helping her do but I was too busy throwing myself a pity party.

For mothers day she got (sort of from me, but from D) door alarms that beep when you open the door for her townhome, pepper spray and I'm going to let her take the stun gun. I just want to be sure she's safe which I won't be able to be sure of when she's not at home.